I am in my 4th marriage. We have been together for almost 29 years and have a great relationship and my dressing is totally accepted. My other three were 11, 5 and 6 years each and I was not a dressers, so it was not a factor. Sometimes it take a while to fully grow up and find out who you really are. I am very happy and now you can find out who you really are. Enjoy the journey, where ever it takes you.