@Teri Wise words for us all. Honestly is certainly the best.
Hey @Nikki Sorry to hear about your wife. I hope you can tell your kids sooner rather than later. Who knows? Instead of them losing dad they'll gain a new mum AND a happier dad.
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Sherry, thanks for that inspirational post. Gives me hope. 😃💅👸
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I'll stop just agreeing with everyone now. 😁
Katie, you're spoilt for choice here. So much plain good advice. No, you shouldn't feel ashamed but like Meghan I sense that it's not so much shame you're expressing. It sounds you feel somehow like you're letting your wife down. That you don't occupy the same space in your marriage you once did. You are still that man, right? I, personally, am going through a patch of upping my game in male mode to reassure my wife. I think it takes a secure man to CD. Weak men toe the line and call it 'gay' or whatever. Keep talking to your wife and hopefully she'll come to see that Katie is an integral, and healthy, part of the man she fell in love with and committed her life to.
I hope it works out and you can come to terms with yourself.