OK, this question isn’t about “how do I tell my wife I’m a CD?” I’ve already crossed that bridge and thankfully have a very understanding and supportive wife. Seriously she’s amazing.
I’ve been going through a little bit of therapy which has helped me gather my thoughts and go deeper into my CD wishes. We started this conversation about a year ago, but then things got kinda cold and I chose to ignore it and be happy that my wife was supportive with “Man in a dress at home when kids aren’t around.” I wanted to take it slow, but zero progress over a year made me realize that I really want more.
As of now, she’s OK with me going to Keystone in March and even expressed a lot of interest in attending. We have much to talk about, but one area in which I’m looking for advice is “How do I best reveal my full made-up, breastforms and hip pad wearing, wig wearing, and hopefully not hideous self to her?
We are both nervous about how we will both react. Some options:
1. Get a makeover and reveal myself in person
2. Get a makeover and allow her to sit in as I get transformed
3. Have her give me a makeover
4. Get a makeover and show her the pictures afterwards
Any suggestions? I have zero makeup skills, my wife is a gorgeous babe who could sell makeup, but she’s never made up a CD before. I’m thinking that #4 might be the least shocking and give her time to look at things by herself without me around.
Has anyone crossed this bridge before? Do we jump all in (Option 1), or do we ease into the pool more slowly and methodically?
Thank you,
Lynne