I hope I'm posting this in the right place, If not sorry =(
I just had a question to the members of Tri Ess in Washington. Well anyone in the group if it's the same nationwide. I've wanted to join to set up some type of in person support with people that understand. What I don't understand, though, is why you have to be heterosexual to be a voting member? Is Tri Ess more of a meat market and not a support group? Are you considered a second class member if they know your sexual preference or are you booted if you tell anyone you're attracted to the same sex? Maybe I'm paranoid because I'm in a dress but the last thing I need is another guy in a dress telling me that I'm weird. Not really sure why anyone there would be worried about who I'm sleeping with unless they are trying to sleep with me but the by laws on the website seem pretty specific.
So the question, is it worth looking into this group or is it a hostile enviornment to anyone that's not the same?
Some insight would be appreciated before I contact them.