I have been gone for a few days. Afew days ago one of our GG members described what I feel is a typical response to a c/d friend mate etal from her genetic female perspective by asking the question how would we feel if our S/O banded her breasts wore a moustache( sp )and very male attire in terms of physical attraction comfort and so on. It got me to thinking do we expect too much?are we too self centered and do we have a false image of our female selves as we relate to the average S/O? How does everyone fell about these questions? And finally are we as an identifiable sub-culture too self centered?