My wife is considerably larger than me. My biggest concern for her is from a health perspective. We are trying a whole new approach starting New Years day. We are putting together a meal plan for 120 days, the idea being there will not need to be any last minute planning or fast food unless its part of the plan. We're putting together a fitness program as well, again for 120 days. Its a lot tougher because with covid neither of us are going to gym and im a firm believer in variety in exercise.
She's wanting to change things and i am excited about helping her get there, not to mention i will gain from it as well.