For the first time, I told a woman friend that I am somewhat trans, and crossdress. I have told, or shown, others who are not in my real world sphere. That is, friends I have met at LGBTQ+ venues, or friends from on line. But this was the first friend, beyond my wife, that now knows. She was very supportive, saying we are all a little trans, as we all have both male and female hormones in our bodies. She wondered how my wife (not a fan) and kids (don't know; I am in no rush to share it with 17, 15, and 12 year olds) took it. Then she made a great comment, that perhaps the kids will learn from it, that we all have differences which make us special. I like that. She also mentioned how mean some can be to those who embrace their own, especially unconventional, nature. True. We have been friends for 37+ years and I have never felt closer to her.
Sharing to show that letting true friends know can be a positive experience. The more we embrace ourselves, the more the world may embrace us. It will take time.
Julie