Originally Posted by
Jodie_Lynn
Welcome to the forums!
I'm going to be blunt here, please don't get offended, but just think about what I say.
I'm hearing a lot of "me, me, me" here, with no thought about how your wife feels. From the math, you got married when you were 19, before either of you could properly figure out who you each were. She accepted your x-dressing in the beginning, but now rejects it.
Hmmmmmm, I wonder what could ever cause such a change of mind.... Perhaps the idea that the two of you are PARENTS, with a child to raise?
You state that you are in therapy, and taking medications for depression & anxiety. Perhaps your wife, and mother of your child, is concerned that you have become obsessed about crossdressing, and that she fears for the future of the marriage, her & her child's future and wellbeing?
I'm not a doctor or therapist, but might I suggest that you both go to couples counselling, in order to set things straight.
A successful marriage is based on Communication, Cooperation, Consideration, and Compromise. The 4 C's are the bedrock. Sure, sex & passion are great for a starter, and mutual kinks help, but you CANNOT build a relationship just on that. And it CANNOT be all about what YOU want, or what SHE wants. Eventually, the other spouse is gonna get sick and tired of playing second fiddle.
And there are a lot of folk on this site who will crucify me for speaking out, but guess what kids? If you are in a relationship, you must needs make compromises. I always laugh at the indigent posts that basically say "How DARE she put limits on what I can do!!!!!"
Enough said. This will probably get edited or deleted because it slaps both the 'woe is me' and the "I want what I want" tropes with a harsh dose of reality.
Good luck and well wishes on your journey jujudreaming