One of the things that held me back for so long was ?passing?. I was under the belief that by not being what I consider passable unless I?m dim lights that this was just a behind closed doors thing and I would be mostly alone in enjoying this. Not until very late did I discover that others would be interested in me even though I didn?t totally pass.
This is not about passing in public but more about finding those that would be attracted to me and not being alone.
Anyone else had similar experiences?