Ok just say for the sake of conversation that you were born with this, have any of you talke to your family physician. I am just curious?? Had your thyroid and hormone levels checked?? What about a little testosterone. And FYI all of you you say it is miserable living like this. Well half of america is obese and claim that it is genetic or hormonal. Come on now,what there are no genetic mishaps in Africa. Do you get my point? It is an excuse you chose this as a crutch as they chose food. Lets see I did it since I was 7. Humm in my opinion I have trouble with that. Hey I am not perfect. But I think you guys chose it as a coping mechanism. Maybe a comfort of that that you were close to your moms. The ones that you felt safest with and it became a crutch. A crutch that you will choose over your own real coping mechanism a wife. A wife who loves you..Just wanted to see what you guys had to say to this. This is a forum and I am here to learn but I want all perspectives and hey if we do not see if any of you have had these tests then how can you say it is genetics. DNA is not part of the factor I work in the medical field.