I sent a little over 4 years in the Coast Guard, I was involved in the hurricane Katrina rescue. My 40 year old boat went straight through the hurricane, we picked up the dead in the ocean. I saw things I will never forget. The fact is there is a lot of minor things people worry about, money, cars, a big house, their career.
There is one basic question, do you love him? I am sure there are things your husband doesn't like about you. There are many worse things in life, spousal abuse, alchoholism, drug abuse, child abuse, etc.
Crossdressing is around the world. One of the migrant boats we picked up a year ago had a crossdresser. He came from Haiti. One of the Native American tribes in the U.S. in the mid 1800's were seen wearing womens clothing stolen from a wagon-train. In this Native American tribe they took this from nature. Basically since many male animals are brightly colored and decrative to attact a mate, so to the men of this tribe. The white men thought it was odd and put their own personal beliefs into what they saw (I'm sure you now what they though).
Clothes Don't make you a man, it's the actions of your life that do. Life is too short don't sweat the small stuff.
