Am I happy...
I'm at a point in my life where I have accepted who I am and what I am. In that respect, I'm happy - for the better part of my life I could not make that statement.
I have a good job - a career in fact. I am able to support my family myself so my wife can raise our daughters. I have a nice home, good neighborhood, great kids. How could I not be happy for this?
I have a loving wife who has put up with more crap because of me and my 'issues' than she signed on for. She should have kicked my ass to the curb a few times but saw something good in me when even I didn't. She has accepted me for who I am - more or less. I know it still bothers her at times and its tough to get a clear read on her feelings. I've not made things easy for her and she's stuck by me. For this I am happy as well.
The whole, however, is something less than the sum of it's parts. I suppose that overall - yeah, I'm happy. But 'happy' is such a vague and meaningless word. Perhaps the right word for the above is 'greatful'.
I suppose what is missing is a sense of fulfillment in my life. Being who and what I am at this place and time leaves a void in myself which I find impossible to explain - I simply don't have the words. I suspect I'll never find this 'missing' something - as I don't know what it is, how can I go about finding it?
Perhaps I think too deeply about all of this...
But - to the original question: Am I Happy?
Sure, why not.
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The most merciful thing in the world, I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents. We live on a placid island of ignorance in the midst of black seas of infinity, and it was not meant that we should voyage far. The sciences, each straining in its own direction, have hitherto harmed us little; but some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the deadly light into the peace and safety of a new dark age.
- H. P. Lovecraft -