Charlotte - I can totally understand your feelings and the "guilt" that you are feeling! You didn't fail, and sometimes Charlotte just needs a little something to perk up her day and what could be better than a new outfit with heels! Heels are my weakness and my wife is asking me to start listing on eBay again, as before the summer, I spent several months "thinning" out my collection (over 1000 pairs shhh) and I was able to sell over 300 pairs of shoes! She did see a couple of boxes arrive in the mail over the last month or so, and of course I was smart enough to purchase a pair of killer booties for her, as I could not find them in Maria's size (and she knows I have been looking for these for over a year now) so I do get it. I know that I don't "need" another pair of shoes, and when I see something from my favorite designer on sale, I simply can't resist....