Hi girls
Just wondering how you spend your time dressed with your partners. I have a totally supportive wife who allows me to dress in the house whenever I want if we are not expecting visitors. She doesn't like me saying she "allows me to dress", but she is fine with it, she says. Bless her. But my dressing usually see's me in a female role, as I love cooking. I love putting on a lovely dress,stockings,heels, the full thing and cooking whilst having a rather large drink or two. I feel very feminine in a frilly apron in the kitchen. I cook most Saturday nights, 3 courses, keeping her glass full. I clear up and tidy away before settling down next to her for the rest of the evening. Yes this takes a few hours, it's hard work sometimes but I enjoy it for 1. I am Stephanie and feel wonderful. 2. My wife is absolutely wonderful to me, why shouldn't I really spoil her. It's a second marriage for both of us and we both worked really hard. We're very happily retired now. I didn't plan this, it was something that evolved including my dressing, but I believe it has helped my wife except Stephanie as often it means she is spoilt. She has grown to associate my dressing with something pleasurable. She expects nothing of me, and I don't have to do this. I'm free to dress in the house when I wish. But it really works, she will come up to me in the kitchen when I'm fully dressed and hug me from behind telling me the food smells lovely, or asking if she can help. To which I always reply I'm fine, relax.
Do any of you spoil your partners while dressed. Do you make it enjoyable for them, make them feel loved and reassured. I think reassurance is a major problem in a crossdressing marriage.
I know I am one of the very lucky ones on this site to have a wonderful wife. Do we all do enough for our partners. Do we all show them the love they deserve. Do we make them feel special often enough. I try, but make mistakes I'm sure. It's a cop out to say you can't cook something, if you can dress as the opposite sex and use the internet then you can follow a simple recipe.