RobbieGirl presented a question on September 4th about what wife?s think about their SO/husbands who wear sexy bra & panty sets. Rather than add my comment to RobbieGirl's question, I though I would start a new thread about my wife?s comments about lots of things related to cross dressing. So, here goes?
Oh yes, my wife thinks it's fun to wear matching panties and bra sets. She almost always chooses her nightie and panties to match what I have chosen or visa versa. We have been shopping together for years and have always purchased matching lingerie for us both.
This preference for wearing matching panties, bras, slips, nighties, etc does not spill over to our outer wear however. We both want to dress in the appropriate style clothes for whatever we are doing together as "girlfriends", but perfect matching is not what either of us want to present in public. It draws too much attention. If she is wearing slacks, I will wear slacks or denim. If she wears a skirt or dress, I do too. But what we both wear are never perfect matches in color or design.
Has my wife ever made a comment about how I look? Oh yes! Always!!! That?s something I crave as I make my grand entrance after dressing. She never fails to complement how pretty I look or how much she likes what I have chosen to wear.
Her complements are one way she lets me know that she truly understands and enjoys my need to be Teresa occasionally. I have to confess that her warm, supporting comments and obvious acceptance of my feminine persona is what allowed me to accept this CD'ing need years ago.
I finally realized that if my wife was so accepting of my girl needs, then why should I continue to doubt myself or continue to feel guilt in those early years? If she could love me being Teresa, then why should I not be able to love and accept myself as a male who totally enjoys occasional submersion in my need to look and feel feminine.
To make her comments even more fun for me, she ALWAYS uses feminine pronouns and her chosen girl name (Teresa) if I wear feminine outer wear. She so enjoys pushing that hot button that keeps me in a state of pleasure as I enjoy feminine attire so much.
During most holiday weeks, such as this Labor Day period, I am enjoying the pleasure of dressing as Teresa from last Friday, September 1st through Monday morning, September 11th. Yes, I am dressing and feeling like Teresa non-stop for ten days and nights.
So far we have been grocery shopping at Costco, Nordstroms. We also had our fingers and toe nails done at our favorite place. We also both had make-over make up sessions at our favorite salon where we always go as two women. We have also had every evening meal out at brand named restaurants that you would recognize.
I'm sure you are all curious about how well I passed or blended. Both my wife and I agreed that Teresa was seen by hundreds of people while we were out in public as two women, but only one woman gave me a second look. In fact, she gave me a third look as she was probably trying to decide what gender I really was. However, she showed absolutely no facial expression of shock or dissatisfaction. She just took three hard looks as she was walking.
So, we are enjoying this Labor Day holiday period as we both enjoy the labor of pretending that I am a woman, 24 hours a day for ten days.
If you have any questions, please feel free to let me know in this thread or via PM. I will surely be doing an update later this week to share my experiences for the remainder of the week and next weekend.
In the meantime, just know that this happily married heterosexual cross dresser is flying high on cloud nine (pink cloud, of course) while I enjoy my wife's total acceptance and participation in my favorite fetish, as I enjoy the thrill of living for ten strait days as a woman at home and in public.
More later.
...............Debra
, You are so Blessed to have such a Wonderful
Wife, >Orchid**O
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