All of us in a relationship that our S/O knows about our dressing, knows that open and honest communication is very important.
Again this week I didn't get fully dressed. Just a pair of jeans, a nice blouse, panties, thigh high stockings, bra with breast forms and pair of flats. No wig or jewelry again this week I just wasn't feeling it.
Getting back to communication with the wife.
Last week out of the blue while we were watching TV, she turned to me and said "You know I truly love you". And I replied you must, since you have to deal with all of this, and I motioned towards what I was wearing. She then said "It is part of you, and I love you for who you are."
I know she supports me and would do anything for me, but I also know that she would be happier if I stopped all this.
She doesn't want me dressing all the time, so I only dress about 3 days a week. I used to do it through out the week on various days, but I have changed the days I get dressed. I now get dressed Friday after work and usually stay dressed most of the weekend until Monday morning when I wake up. On warmer days I don't dress when I do our weekly shopping, but shortly after I get home, I am wearing a bra with my breast forms until I get ready for my weekly bath.
I am able to do all this because of the open and honest communication my wife and I have.
If I was single, I would be dressed almost daily, but since my wife married a man we compromised. If I am overly stressed I might slip on a nightgown on before going to bed, but with no bra or anything else. My wife never says anything, because she knows that it some how relaxes me.