I could basically copy Stephanie47?s story and claim it as my own experience. A big ditto. But for me, the best therapy has been research and in many ways, this forum. The research has convinced my that there are more than just a few other cross dressers out there and this forum has shown me that we are decent thinking people with normal lives. We are not all gay porn stars or Aqualung sitting on the park bench. So, while I still keep my dressing and what I do private, I have pretty much put the guilt away and figured out that I simply enjoy something that others may not enjoy.