I'm curious as to when each of us shared with our wife or girlfriend that we crossdressed. I married late (42), in part because of fears of having to hide or of being rejected due to CDing. By the time I met my wife-to-be, I had decided to share that info early on so that time was not needlessly wasted. Something about her must have made me feel that I would not be rejected since I told her on our first date. While she didn't jump for joy, she accepted me CDing and all. I treasure her and being open certainly paid off for me. I read with sadness about those of us who have been unable to be open with those we love and struggle with what to do.
Talon