Hello. My father has revealed to me (approx 6 months ago) that he likes to CD. Since then, I 've continued to have a relationship with him. I don't believe that I should stop loving, caring, or respecting him. My brothers, on the other hand, can not accept it or be willing to understand it. They thought that maybe it was just a "bedroom thing". But in the last few months my Dad has almost completely transformed into a female. He CD's 24/7 including work. He just recently spoke openly and sternly about his decision to CD 24/7 even around family regardless if they accept it or not. He tries to convience me and my brother that he fools everyone and that he looks so good this way. He showed up at my brothers house all dressed up and fluanted his new figure and outfit in front of him, his girlfriend, and their 3 yr old daughter. Needless to say, this is the first time ever making any effort to visit him at his home. He was never the kind of Dad who put family first or kept in touch much. He also spoke to my other brother who also is very confused about the whole situation and was telling him about the new sexy bikini he just bought. My brothers were having a hard enough time trying to deal with the fact that Dad is gone and never comming back and now they are being asked to accept something and someone that they don't understand.....and no...he's not the same person anymore...he will even admit to that. I use to find it upsetting that I would end up being Dads advocate when talking to my brothers. They would ask me the questions/ concerns that Dad should've been answering for himself. But now that he is contacting them and shoving his new identity down their throats, I realize how destructive this whole situation is becomming. It's not one persons fault. I just feel like bomb has been ignited in my family and I want to take cover before the explosion. My family blames me for Dads choices because I still talk to him. They think I encouraged him and feel that I should stop talking to him about CD alltogether and ask him to keep it to himself. I'm confused and becomming stressed. I started seeing a therapist who only gets paid to listen. Is their anyone out their that can offer any imput at all negative or positive? Thanks!