If you are a GG who has worked or does work in a store, I hope you don't mind answering these questions.
When a male came into the store, perhaps on numerous occasions, clearly buying women's clothes for himself, was there any banter/joking among the store workers about him?
Were/are you trained to be sympathetic and discreet to CDers?
Did/does serving a CDer make some women assistants uncomfortable?
Reason being, some female assistants have been really helpful to me and others have gone out of their way to humiliate me, or not serve me.