Hello everyone. I first of all want to thank everyone for your private messages making sure I am allright. Yes I am, still married, happily, although cd'ing is not part of our marriage. I guess you could say that I am purging right now. I didn't though away all my stuff, I just put in a box and havn't got it out in a while. Sure every once and awhile I get out some lipstick, I have even put the wig on for a brief moment, but I havn't dressed en femme in almost 6 months. Maybe it was because of the pain I caused my wife, maybe it's shame, maybe I have just lost intresest. Not really sure.
As many of you know, while my wife was out of town in December, I did venture out to a CD social event. Interesting is a good way to describe it. Although it wasn't anything like I expected. I expected everyone to not only look femme, but to act a little more femme as well. When in reality, it was a bunch of guys hanging out at a bar dressed in womens clothing. It really seemed no more than a Halloween party where everyone wore a different version of the same costume. I took several pictures and some other people emailed me pictures as well. I think the results of those pictures and the feelings I got from viewing them is what killed my urge to feel all femmy.
After reviewing the pictures of me from that event, I realized that no matter how much makeup, beastforms, lipstick, wigs, sexy clothes, fake nails, shapeware, shaved legs, high heels, etc ... that I try to accessorize myself with to appear to be and feel of the opposiste gender, there are certain manly features of myself that I will never be able to dispose of. Basically, I will always be a man in womens clothing.
When I came to realize that, it just sort of took a lot of the thrill and fun out of dressing. So that, coupled with the doubters and flamers in the forum, I have for all intesive purposes, lost most of my interest to dress. I am sure at some point the urge will overcome the self control, and out it will all come again. A pretty dressed man wearing makeup will enjoy his strutting and shaking around the "closet" and then back to reality.
Anyways, enough rambling. I am not dead, divorced, depressed, or disappeared, but just been away for a while.
Thanks for all the support and friendly comments. Feel free to contact me if you would like.