Amazing the diffrent ideas and comments, that come out of a simple question! Hmmmm?0.02
Amazing the diffrent ideas and comments, that come out of a simple question! Hmmmm?0.02
Haley P. Kemp
[SIZE="4"] Did not mean to say we could get rid of labels just would like to tone them down.[/SIZE]Originally Posted by Marla S
Lables are only problematic if they are INNACURATE or MIS-Labels---We cant think about concepts or make any intellegent conclusions without using lables of some sort.
Because some people are MIS LABLED does not mean that we have to throw away ALL lables---but conversely, make NEW, more accurate ones.
Try thinking about something that does not have a name--Its IMPOSSIBLE. Lables unify CONCEPTS so the brain can handle complex information. A concept not tied together with a unifying word "spills" out in all directions and we cant get a handle on it--just like a package that has no string to hold it together.
Unfortunately there is NO agrement in this feild (CD/TG) as to the lable definitions on either side of the Atlantic or even between different "schools" or individuals---So THATS why it is very important to always DEFINE the terms you use in all communications.---I see a good start has been made in this thread.
I am Me....and that is who I am.....IAMME...........now I may Crossdress, I may take something to get bigger tits and I may wear makeup....But here is what I am... lable me. IAMME.
Last edited by Dee 1062; 06-01-2006 at 05:28 PM.
Dee Dee
As rethorical as the statement "You are what you are" or "I am me"I assume this is a rhetorical question.
It contains no information, but that's what's needed to talk - exchange of information.
(Which color is Red ? Red ! So what !)
Well my impression is that they don't need to be toned down, as wall as we don't need 1001 sublables. Sometimes redefinitions are required, but everything else leads to confusion.Originally Posted by janedoe311
Marina said the rest.
I dont know I have come to terms with being under the transsexual name because I am on hormones and I am living as a woman and I plan on surgery. But through all the names and other lables all I know is one thing. I am me. Charlaine Cadence Nordin. Woman and happy. what my body shows is no matter seeing as it is something that can and will be fixed in time.
Love is like the rose,
Beautiful and Sweet,
Move the wrong way,
And be pricked by it's thorns,
Painful it the wound,
as the heart bleeds,
Feeding the rose that is hidden,
Feeding and growing till it is strong,
My life is like an open book to love me is to know me. to know me is to love me.
www.myspace.com/charlainecadencenord
I happen to like labels, I mean can you imagine walking into the superstore and finding all the labels on the tins/cans gone then what?? close your eyes and pray you're getting salmon and not baked beans silly girls....
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Missing my Libra babe Sherlyn, I hope she's rocking up there with the angels
Missing our Rianna, doesn't seem right, gone to early, hope she's partying with Sherlyn
I started out as CD but now know for sure that I am TG. My goal is to be TS in the end. I am more comfortable about myself as her, want to be my female self 24/7. Just have to take it slow and put all of the pieces into the proper place first.
Joan Lynn
Just a girl stranded on her little red island amongst a lovely sea of blue.
"Be who you are and say what you feel, for those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind."
Dr. Seuss
While doing a research on "Gender Identity" on Google, I've found an interesting glossary:
"Sexual Identity and Gender Identity Glossary"
http://feminism.eserver.org/sexual-gender-identity.txt
I extracted the terms that have been discussed so far in this thread:
Cross Dresser (CD) One (regardless of the motivation) who wears clothes, makeup, etc. which are considered (by the culture) appropriate for the other sex but not one's own.
Fetishistic Transvestite A Transvestite who consistently eroticizes Cross Dressing. May also eroticize fantasies of gender/sex change.
Pre-operative transsexual (Pre-op TS) One who is actively planning to switch physical sexes, mostly to relieve gender dysphoria. Probably, but not necessarily, cross dresses, takes hormone therapy, and gets electrolysis. (See transsexual.)
Transgendered (TG) One who switches gender roles, whether just once, or many times at will. Inclusive term for transsexuals and transvestites.
Transsexual (TS) One who switches physical sexes (usually just once, but there are exceptions.) Primary sex change is accomplished by surgery. (See SRS.) Hormone therapy, electrolysis, additional surgery, and other treatments can change secondary sex characteristics. (See Pre-op TS.)
Transvestite (TV) One who mainly cross dresses for pleasure in the appearance and sensation. The pleasure may not be directly erotic. It may be empowering, rebellious, or something else. May feel comfortable in a focused transgender role while cross dressed. May occasionally experience gender dysphoria.
This is not meant to be an absolute set of definitions, there is no such a thing in human matters...
Eugenie
Like the Girl SaysOriginally Posted by Katrina
Sarah R.
Every time I walk down the street, I see every eye on me.
Every time they look at me, I wonder, who do they see?
Perfection in disguise,with regimes and alibis.
The girl in the mirror , isn't the same as the girl in my heart
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
with Katrina on this, I consider myself transgendered but have no plans to transition or have gender reassignment surgery.Originally Posted by Katrina
Anna x
[SIZE="3"]I need to be on the outside, who I am on the inside[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know[/SIZE]
sure ... then, beans or pickles in glass jars are available too..though without lables the "flavor" could be mistaken ! but does a "shopping" analogy realy apply to this topic? ...seems that getting ( or most likely ,not, getting !)- those things You'd expect, to fit Your wishes..( or preconceptions ?) could be the problem, in the first place ? "K"Originally Posted by Tamara GG
Last edited by Khriss; 06-02-2006 at 02:59 PM.
Just Remember,"Wherever You go- There You are ! "
I agree with what Kehleyr has stated here. I don't give any thought to dressing in women's clothing. It seems like such a normal and routine thing to do. If I were to need a label then it would be TS. Living full time, I don't consider myself a crossdresser and don't give 'dressing' much thought at all.Originally Posted by Kehleyr
Kim