Oh, we do think alike, don't we Jenni?Originally Posted by jenni2716
Oh, we do think alike, don't we Jenni?Originally Posted by jenni2716
[SIZE="3"]Jennaie`[/SIZE]
veryi interesting. This question is like asking ..
"If my wife teaches my son how to make grilled cheese sandwiches, tomatoe soup and chocolate chip cookies, Then goes on to teach him how to do dishes, Is HE gonna become a homosexual??
Get real!! And I do mean REAL!!
"Be WHO and WHAT you are! Don't ever let anyone tell you what to be! Be yourself and be happy"!
a quote from my father, the only GOOD thing he ever really did for me!
Hi Gary
It's like I'm seeing here. Either he is or is not a crossdresser. His role in the play has no bearing on that.
It is true that quite a few of us had a first time experience such that we were instantly hooked after the first time we tried something on, but the clothes didn't start anything. All the clothes did was let us know how we felt all along. Frankly, most of the ones who had that instantly-hooked first time had probably been thinking about trying something on for a while before they did it, even if not consciously. In other words, they were likely already hooked by the time they tried something on for the first time. If he's not a crossdresser now, he won't turn into one from wearing tights in a play.
If you want a better indication then forget about the costume requirements for his part in the play and look into how he got that role in that play. There could be more than one thing going on. Some crossdressers act indifferent or averse to crossdressing in front of others even though they want to do it because they're afraid of being found out. Again, this doesn't mean he is one -- that was just an example. But knowing exactly how it came to be that he now has this part that will require him to wear tights is a much better indicator than the costume requirements themselves.
Good luck!
Lisa
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Originally Posted by GaryS72
This is the most ridiculous posting.
In many studies it has shown that the 3 major things pre school children enjoy most doing at nursery is playing in the water pit and sand pit and dressing up. Does this mean all the boys who dress up in clothes that society dictate are womans are going to be crossdressers.
Think of all those actors who have dawned tights in the movies.......oh my they must want to wear more womans clothes now........totoal rubbish.
Gary if you want to crossdress then come on here and say so and we will be happy to answer your questions.
Same thing surelyOriginally Posted by Audrey34
Only thing i remember playing at school was a policeman in a play I did try out for mary in the nativaty only it was a coed school
Steph
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Hi Everybody:
Really folks, this one reminds me of the post a couple of weeks back about the School Counselor who advised some boy to engage in homosexual sex acts, because he crossdressed. In Talk Show Radio they call this "cranking". I suspect someone is making a sophomoric attempt at humor to point out our preoccupation with some of the minutiae.
The reality is, who cares! If a child playing Peter Pan turns in to a crossdresser because of wearing tights.....are we living in the 21st century? We SHOULD know better than that! Anyone with an IQ higher than a gerbil's should know better than that!
Let's go back to the posts about, "what color should I paint my toenails?" They are a lot more pertinent.
By the way, you all forgot about the "Pro Wrestler's". They all wear tights, most of them have long hair, they wear makeup and a lot of sequins and glitter. Makes you have a whole different opinion about The late Andre The Giant, doesn't it?
Peace and Love, Joanie
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As I remember, I watched Peter Pan when I was 4 years old. When the movie was over I cried and cried. I wrote Peter Pan a letter asking for some magic fairy dust, "actually my mother wrote the letter for me". I did get a return letter, it was from Mary Martin, she informed me that she was so sorry but she was all out of magic fairy dust and sent me an 8 by 10 of her flying. I was very touched but so sad that she had run out of magic fairy dust. I'm sure that this is no doubt what started my crossdressing, something about those tights and god, did that boy have a cute bottom or what?
[SIZE="3"]Jennaie`[/SIZE]
Hi
If its in him, then yes, if its not then no
Enjoyed your summary of the fictional roots of the Peter Pan story. Plenty of creative writing going on here. The contributing responses are most interesting in respect to the mental processing of early childhood rembrances.
Tough crowd here, the literary talent has little respect for learners.