Question psychologist asked.

[KewTnCurvy GG]

her psychologist about my crossdressing, my wife said one of the first things out of her mouth was "Are the boys safe?".

A) If this is true, then she had an ass for a psychologist. No psychologist in his/her right mind would say that!

HOWEVER,

B) I suspect, since this was shared by your wife WHO clearly was/is not supportive, it is either not true or TOTALLY taken out of context.

Kew

[tekla west]

Hey we have had psychologists around for almost a hunderend years now, and no one has got better. Not a minor point.

Don't believe them. As CD occurs in a normal statistical variant in the universe, so does child molesting. Can they occur together? Sure. Often. No, rare. Ten percent of ten percent. You work the math.

Hey, I will cut the psychologists one break however. And its this.

Given the legal junk that psychologists and the rest of the "helping professions" are under these days I'm sure her lawyer TELLS her to ask that, least she be seen as being negligent.

[Bridget]

Psychology is hit and miss. Among those in the medical field, it is considered the ghetto of medicine; where those med students who fall between the cracks (for incompetence, and what else) end up. This is the same field who created the "Satanic" day care histeria of the 80s and 90s, where psychologists put children under hypnosis, and "found out" that the children were exposed to human sacrifice to Satan and sexual rituals. Not a single body was found, nor was any "secret rooms" found. Likewise, psychologists can "discover", through hypnosis, that one was abducted by space aliens, or that one was sexually abused (whether or not one remembers being sexually abused). Many hold personal views which are questionable for people of science.

The only possible worse people in medicine are chiropractors. They often use their chiropractor license to give them an air of credibility when selling devices to electrically shock parasites out of you (for without, they claim, one would live forever) or shill pills containing the brains of sheep.

[Bridget]

There is a very strong tendency for gay men to engage in sex with young boys and teens. As one peruses the threads here, it is readily apparent that many cross dressers seem to have gay urges therefore, why should that question be so out-of-place? Seems like reaping what one sows.

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

Gay urges? Statistically from official surveys, most crossdressers are heterosexual. Unless you consider it to be lesbianism. Which some do consier themselves, at least the ones that are transgendered.

And as for gay men engaging in sex with young boys and teens, are those people actually gay, or are they just pederasts? Homosexuality and pederasty are not necessarily inclusive to one another. They may be a large population of pederasts, but that does not necessarily mean they are gay. To use a separate example, there is a very high quantity of lolita-complex pornography sold in Japan, however, does that mean that heterosexuality of the male Japanese tends towards younger girls, or does that just mean there is a sizeable portion of the male Japanese population that are specifically lolikon? When makeing broad assumptions, you have to understand the statistics, and be aware of the distinctions between classes, and correlation and causation.

[tekla west]

There is a very strong tendency for gay men to engage in sex with young boys and teens. >>>> In fact most - and I mean BY FAR - underage sex is between older men and younger women. period. paragraph.

As one peruses the threads here, it is readily apparent that many cross dressers seem to have gay urges therefore, why should that question be so out-of-place? >>>> Whoo, nelly! Just hold on a second there partner. AGAIN-!! Most Gay Men are LESS likely to molest children than a straight male.

Moreover!!! I read these posts, and a lot of the members who are doing the boy fantasy trip (and rest assured I DON'T, I think boys are icky!) want to be treated "like a lady." That implies bar tabs in pricey joints, not candy bars from 7/11.

Seems like reaping what one sows. >>> If you plant ice you're gonna' harvest wind.

[Kimberley]

I am a CD (well TS to be more or less truthful but let's not split hairs) Therefore I am also:
Gay
A Pedophile
A Satanist
Homicidal
Suicidal
Obsessive/Compulsive
Perveracator (sp?) oh hell... a liar...
Perverted


Okay girls, help me out here... I am sure you can find at least a dozen descriptives in your own vocabulary.....

GEESH ... and this psychologist was licensed? Did s/he ever hear of the DSM IV? I'd be reporting that one to the licensing board...

Kimberley.

[Stephenie S]

Christina Nicole,

Unless you were trying to be ironic or "tongue in cheek", I have to correct you. The VAST majority of child molesters are heterosexual men. Not only hetrosexual men, but heterosexual family members. Fathers, uncles, brothers, etc. The idea that homosexual men have any overt sexual interest in children is a cruel and patently homophobic misconception. There is just NO scientific evidence to back up your assertion that this psychologist was anything but an uneducated quack or a raving homophobe.
OK, now I climb down from my pink soapbox and hope you were just trying to be amusing.

Lovies,
Stephenie

[chantelle]

Has anyone besides myself any counsilling skills that can counsill people from the point of view of the cd. I have not a lot to say on this forum, as I prefer to do my counsilling in person. So if anyone need free help, they need to come to SOuth africa.
I am who I am for I love me, that way when someone asks if kids are safe yell. "Hell yes."
For it is our first answer which counts the most.
Love
chantelle.

[Lisa Golightly]

Your wife's Psychologist needs a Psychologist. He/She obviously has some issues.

[Ranee Daze]

My one trip to a psychologist where I revealed my dressing showed me that very few psychologists must keep up to date on many emerging issues, not just crossdressing. I knew more than she did and was clearly uncomfortable with the notion. In the end she learned from me....I wish I got, rather than paid, her fee!

[Cheery GG]

[SIZE="2"]It's at times like this you wonder if they ever did any training at all.[/SIZE]

I couldt agree more shelly, she should be ashamed of herself. As a psychologist she should know better...much much better !

cheery
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