I know we all have some form of desire (even Fantasies) in our dressings, but I read many posts on here that just seem to want to take this (what I call a hobby!) way to far? Myself I'm happy to arrange my hobby around my family who are far more important to me, than my crossdressing, however no matter what I've tried I can't stop doing this, therefore I have learn over the years to balance the two, but it seems some here, just want to go further, and futher! (and before we go any further, my partner is fully aware of my desire to dress, and is well aware of Tracy!)
Myself I know I can never be a woman (and don't wish to be so anyway!) I don't have a womb for a start and never will have, and dispite any other simular factors, ie I do have small hands, I'm well under six foot tall, etc! To me I dress, enjoy it, and then move on. I don't dwell on it. during the day I might (okay I do) think about ways I can enhance my dressing different ways I can make what I have, look more feminine, but I'm really not interested in wearing heels all day, or going to the town/city/work wearing ladies underwear under my male clothes (I nearly put drab there, but I didn't maybe that adds a bit more to what I'm trying to say here!) Ie as Male I'm happy in boxers or underpants, when dressing thats when I want to wear my fem ones!!!
What I'm trying to get at here, is how many other are out there feel like me, ie this is just a hobby, and just arrange there dressing arround there family, not expect there family to arrange thereselves around their dressing. I'm sure my partner is not the only partner that knows there partners dresses and they (and their SO) both visit here, and then read what sometimes, even I think are some really off the wall stories and desires (but each to there own!). I can't be the only one that just arranges his dressing to suit the family (can I?)
Another reason for this post, is as well as some of our partners looking in and reading all the comments here, I'm sure there will be others who have carried there fantasy way to far and it ended up burning them. Sadly I can speak of knowing someone I knew, who actually did this. In there case, they fully believed they wanted SRS, and did everything they could to ensure they had the surgery, they did, and they were not TS, they were TV, you can imaging the outcome.
What I'm getting at here, is to me my dressing is just a bit of fun (and always has been even before I was married) I'm well aware there are girls here that are Bi, Gay, and full time dressers and this is not a pop at you, so please don't think it is as this post is not about sexual desires, but more lifestyle! what this post is really about and for is for those of us that have SO's and for others reading in in the same cercumstances, and to let them know that there are guys out there that just dress, and then move on. we don't have a desire to be 24/7 we are happy to be part time girls (and happy to put our fem self in a box, for the majority of our time.
Ie this post is not about the volume you dress, nor what you do when you are dressed en fem, ie it would not matter if you dressed once every six months, or every single day, it a case of is your dressing over when you change, or do you need more and more, ie you fully change back to male, and job done all over! Or does it have to carry on every minute of the day!
I'm sure I'm not the only one, that when over, it over and done with till next time? are there others, like me out there?
Your comments on this would be interesting