Well kiddo I think all of our opinions tend to be personalized. I have suggested hubby do counseling in the past but intend to bring it up again. From what I understand he has been dressing since a very young boy and has done so every year with some variance in the freqency. Until he confided in me about wearing ladies wear he did not assosicate this with being a CD. I spoke with him for quite some time before he could even say the words, "I am a Crossdresser." He didn't like it. And he surely didn't like me at that moment either since it was me who said the words first when I said so you are a crossdresser then. ewwwwwwww the look on his face was not pleasant when he heard me say those words. I was not being judgemental but that was the only term I knew to apply to his behavior as I knew it from the little he said. I am happy to read that counseling has enabled you to move forward in life. It gives me hope. Thank you for taking the time to talk with me.Originally Posted by typical_guy