This is going to be a few observations I've recently made about myself, and hopefully will elicite comments from my sisters.
The first steps I took as a crossdresser had nothing with clothing. Makeup! Ooooh, how I loved to do up my face. Of course, I was a tad naive as a kid, social idiot if you get my drift, but I so loved the feel and look of a creamy lipstick.
But that was, escuse the pun, only the icing on the cake. I also found that I had a true love for cooking, for sewing, for the arts, for all the activities that growing up in Brooklyn, NY, one might view as "girl's stuff".
My point? I feel that I was able to express my feminine side without putting on a dress. I was able to do the things mostly associated with women and not be shunned because of it. It has been only lately that I know the full extent of my CD needs, and have started dressing.
As my wife said when I came out to her, "It was your softer side I was attracted to."
Comments?