I too have suffered a marriage breakdown because of my CD'ing. And I think Melanie's contribution "because of crossdressing and later discover that they had the best man They fell in love with the man who crosses gender lines because of his caring, sensitivity and other feminine qualities." has pointed out one of the main things that occurs. The woman that I married liked the 'caring', 'softer' things I was offering in the relationship. Hopefully it wasn't just the fact I was also a good house cleaner. Anyway, be that as it may, I swore I would not enter into a lasting relationship ever again. Yes, I have had dalliances that have been openly accepting of my CD'ing, but they would be as friends (albeit very close) only. I won't go into the detail, but it has been okay.
My life has recently taken a change for the better.