Ricky -
Yes, that's me as well, though I have done full dress-up by myself, never out, and I enjoyed it (you may want to try it sometime). Very comfortable being a male / guy, don't feel any need to "out" myself to the larger public, but this new side of me is very satisfying, has stimulated my marriage. I will keep it hidden from my sons (they can make their own choices when they are adults), and all others due to community, job, etc.
But there is nothing like the pure pleasure of silk lace panties and a camisole next to your skin. Tomorrow - wearing my new undies to work all day! The only downside is killing my budget on all these intimates!