I was just wondering how many here just enjoy wearing women's underwear, otherwise dressed as male. I am in my 30s and have enjoyed wearing bras and panties/thongs for over 20 years. I think at first during puberty there was a sexual thrill to it, but now I just like the way they feel. I also like bustiers, corsets, garter belts/thih highs, etc.
I just recently came out to my wife of several years. She was not exactly thrilled and had the usual reaction (am I gay, do I want a sex change, etc..). I have had longish hair most of the time we have been together and had several ear piercings which I used to use when we first started dating (no longer do due to career). She put all of it together and assumed I was trying to become female. After a long discussion she settled on the fact that it was too wierd for her, but would tolerate it as long as she didn't see it or know about it. Since then I have pushed it a little, wearing a bra and thong pretty much all the time that I am home, making sure I was wearing clothing that would disguise it well. She probably knows I am doing this, but probably just lets it go since I am making the effort to cover it up. In the meantime I have been making an extra effort to make her feel like a woman and reassure her that nothing has really changed with us, other than she now knows my diverse taste in undergarments.
I really do not have much of a desire to look like a woman or dress completely as one, although I could really get into wearing jean skirts as a guy during the summer. I never really had a desire to be a woman either. I guess I'm just an under-crossdresser.
Anyone out there relate to this? Also, any suggestions on bras that hide well under loose fitting clothing?