It's late here (23:30), think I actually broke the news at 23:00, it's all kind of a blur.
I think I probably went against every piece of advice that I was given
From what I can remember my wife made a comment that, with all the shaving of legs etc I was probably a transvestite, at which point I said I was, I just thought it was an opportunity and a point at which I couldn't lie.
She reacted very badly and has asked me to get out of the house until she can get her head round this.
She has said that she wants to be married to a man and not half and half.
She cried for at least 5 minutes
I haven't been able to cry, I seem to feel detached as if this isn't happening (how else would I be able to type this now).
She has said she has no-one to tell about this and may have to talk to her mum; I said that it is up to her who she tells.
She has said that she doesn't want our son to know or to see me dressed up (he is only 3 at the moment). I said that that was fine.
She has talked about me breaking her heart by telling her this and asked why I never said anything before.
Life has suddenly gone horribly wrong