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    Sugar daddy

    I am so excited i had to come and tell all the best girls in the world. I have found a man that is going to supply all my outfits lingerie, hosery, shoes. he just wants to see me in it. no sex or anything like that. i thought i would drop in and let you know what is going on.....please let me know what you think.

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    What does your wife think about this?
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    my wife is all for it. she is even going to meet the guy. my wife is the one after i told her, taught me how to do make up to make it look like it was does right.

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    Maybe it is just my natural skepticism, but I would approach this very cautiously. True, most guys are voyuers first, foremost, and always, but remember the old saying,
    "Beware of Greeks bearing gifts".

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    I don't know
    Some just doesn't sound right to me
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    well i know this would help the wardrobe tremedously, i told hime that i am not into sex that way that i am married and have been for 10 wondeful years. he seems all cool with it. but i am going to take all the advice i can on this. as i am still new to showing to the outside world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarah Luv View Post
    I am so excited i had to come and tell all the best girls in the world. I have found a man that is going to supply all my outfits lingerie, hosery, shoes. he just wants to see me in it. no sex or anything like that. i thought i would drop in and let you know what is going on.....please let me know what you think.

    What do I think?

    As Ann Landers said often: If it looks/sounds too good to be true, it is.

    This man is going to simply finance your entire femme wardrobe, unlimited funds, and all he seeks in return is to see you wear it?

    C'mon now, you're an adult (I presume, since you're married), does this sound like something a rational man would do?

    How did you "find" this man? Via the internet? If so, I wouldn't start shopping just yet, expecting to be reimbursed. I have a strong suspicion you'll end up holding a very large bill and he'll have changed his screen name, had a laugh at your expense, and moved on to the next victim.

    Or else, once he's financed your wardrobe, then the "bait and switch" begins. He will emphatically state he is entitled to more than just a look see, considering the expense he is out. Then whatcha gonna do?

    Sorry to burst your bubble, but please, do come back and let us know if this is in fact the "real deal" and not just another cyber fantasy.

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    Why Is He Doing This?

    Sarahluv,

    this sounds fishy to say the least and certainly seems suspicious to me.Has he told you why he wants to "watch you"?, if not for some type of gratification,then what?

    Have you (and pardon me for sounding paranoid), thought that he may get you in a room and secretly be taking pictures or videotaping this 'modelling' that you'll be doing?.I imagine you've heard the nasty 'B word" before?- Blackmail!.

    Now I could be wrong but who really knows?,how long have you known this man? and has he shown you that he can be trusted?.
    On the other hand and at the risk of sounding negative,have you even considered that me may actually be interested in your wife?, and using you to get near her?.No disrespect meant here,not that she'd be willing to help destroy your special relationship.
    Just please keep an open mind here and whatever you decide,stay alert and use caution.
    Yes please let us know the end result sister,

    Hugs and you and your wife stay safe,

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    if it seems to good to be true then it probably is'nt. i wish you well but please be careful girl

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    I have to agree, this sounds a little funky to me... be very careful, there's a lot of creeps on the internet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GG Vanya View Post
    This man is going to simply finance your entire femme wardrobe, unlimited funds, and all he seeks in return is to see you wear it?

    C'mon now, you're an adult (I presume, since you're married), does this sound like something a rational man would do?

    How did you "find" this man? Via the internet? If so, I wouldn't start shopping just yet, expecting to be reimbursed. I have a strong suspicion you'll end up holding a very large bill and he'll have changed his screen name, had a laugh at your expense, and moved on to the next victim.

    Or else, once he's financed your wardrobe, then the "bait and switch" begins. He will emphatically state he is entitled to more than just a look see, considering the expense he is out. Then whatcha gonna do?

    Sorry to burst your bubble, but please, do come back and let us know if this is in fact the "real deal" and not just another cyber fantasy.
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    I agree

    Quote Originally Posted by Bobbie cd View Post
    remember the old saying,
    "Beware of Greeks bearing gifts".
    Just make sure if things develop, use a 'Trojan'

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    Saraluv

    I cannot add to the excellent advice above. Please heed it.

    If the roles were reversed, you were financing him : would you just want to look ?

    I think any of us would say " He who pays the piper calls the tune ". Once dressed, you are rather vulnerable.

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    On the other hand, there is a sucker born every minute, you might have found yours.

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    The bottom line is that you're going to be prostituting yourself out to him, whether there's sex involved or not. Is that worth getting a free dress to you? Something to think about...

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    Sounds fishy to me. I would expect hidden cams and what not. If fact I wouldn't be surprised to find a vid clip on the net. Obviously he getting something out of it. As intimidating as buying that kind of stuff would be for me, I would go shopping 10x over for that stuff before I took stuff from some guy with his reward seeing me in it. In fact I don't think I'd do it even if I knew the person. Sure the stuff cost money, but it ain't worth that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarah Luv View Post
    I have found a man that is going to supply all my outfits lingerie, hosery, shoes. he just wants to see me in it.
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    Good luck with that one!!! Promise them everything..........Don't bend over to pick up that bra he dropped!! hehehe

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    This sounds fishier then a bucket full of fish. There must be some sort of catch to this. Where did you meet him, and how long have you known him? Whatever you decide to do, be extremely careful.
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    I saw red flags in the first sentence here!!!!!!!!!

    I would be SOooooooooooooooooooooo skeptical!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I bet he shows up with a camera, professional style....

    And even if not, you can imagine what visions he'll be taking home - this just has WRONG written all over it!!

    Run, run screaming into the night!!
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    Dear Sarah,

    Listen too ALL who replied to your post.

    Run, do not walk, to the nearest exit. Sounds great doesn't it? -NOT-

    I want to keep writing just to make sure I have convinced you, but all I can say has been said already by your sisters in previous posts. Listen to them. Listen to us all. This guy is trouble with a capital T.

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    I have found a man that is going to supply all my outfits lingerie, hosery, shoes. he just wants to see me in it. no sex or anything like that. ??????????????????????????



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