Many of us have used the services of a psychologist. I have used both a male and a female. The truth is I can relate to and accept the guidance of the female much easier than the male. He seemed almost as uncomfortable as I did in discussing my GID. She understands my “estrogen based” responses and we have a good relationship.
Now on to the reason for the question. While doing research for the book I discovered that many GG’s will not have another female as a GYN for varying reasons, the chief one being that they don’t want another woman messing around down there.
So how do us CD’ers feel about which sex messes around with our head??