I'll give you a hug
I'll give you a hug
Love as always Jasminexxxxxxxx
Hey, my post on this thread got zapped. Not nice. I said I was a size 6 - meaning: there shouldn't be an inference all dressers are 'unnaturally' sized and 'squeezing' themsleves to be girls (as I hear it, a somewhat disparaging premise). There is no shortage of super-tiny dresses at the used places, I don't think size and fem are all that related. Can this comment live?
All tru history most of the art, old photos, tales etc show woman as rounder and "fluffy" , rubinesk ( excuss the spelling ) I just plain don't find skinny people attractive, I remember sitting in the living room watching "10" with Bo Derick and during the beach thing I said " she needs to eat more" and all my family laughed.
My wife and all always so gratful to find the well dressed chubbies clothes at the thrift store and oh how I adore them both.
Holy freakin' Moly this thread is right up my Alley!! I started out a few years ago as a size 24......then I was in 22's for a good while. Then I have spent about a year or so in size 20's when I decided to go on Weight Watchers. I am just now getting into 18's!! WOOOT!!
This is why I prefer being with someone who dresses because they like and love unconditonally. They just want someone who will accept ALL of them.
I have a great amount of low self esteem and I can forget about getting nekked with anyone for the time being........I just have a real tough time with it, and I have complete kudos to the pleasingly plump GG's who have NO probs getting naked for their S.O.
The weight is coming off slowly, but I still have issues with the self image bit. I suppose that it all comes from being with someone who while drinking would put me down for my weight and how he didn't want a BBW. It's my fault for staying and putting up with the crap.
It is SOOOOOOO refreshing to see gurls on here who love, appreciate and embrace their "fluffy" GG's.........Hats off to you!!!
I have a very good CD friend here in town who is probably a size 12, maybe a 10......skinny little bytch that she is........
we were at Walmart the other night at midnight (first time he had ever gone shopping with a GG for his gurlie things!!)---he was in boy mode of course.
We ventured over to the hose area (he was dying to go over there, I could see him chomping at the bit!! heh!!) and he starts going through the "Q" sizes.......and I said rather loudly "you are NOT queen size"!! (now mind you, this guy is 5-11 and about 160 pounds).........like I said........skinny lil bytch..........
we got a real kick out of all. I really relish going shopping with a guy who dresses..........
PS.........come on over gurls..........you can all dig through MY closet.......... (you know you want to!!)
My personal opinion? Beside the obvious reasons (like sharing clothes)..plus size gals ROCK! Keep those nasty skinny things with the ribs sticking out!
Nothing sexier than a woman with curves!!!!!
And for the most part, if I could change into a woman this instant, I would be short and plus sized!!!
I hug my lovely pleasantly fluffy wife all the time, but never enought for her. She does not seem to understand how I can love all of her, but I do and have for 18 years with many more to come. I love her more now that I did the day we were married. And we are both about the same size, but do not share clothes. But I do get some hand me downs at times.
KimberlyS - CD
KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt. Being myself not trying to be some other CDer
Just trying to find a balance for my son and myself.
Standard disclaimer: Going out of the house was right for me, it may or may not be right for you. If you've got no desire to leave the house, that's fine, I'm not trying to push you out the door. But for those who've been yearning to do so, I just want to let you know the world may not be as scary a place as you think.
I hug my Big Beautiful Girlfriend every day, every chance I get!
I looooooooooove every round inch of her.
We are both on the big side, I'm 18/20, she's a 24/26, and we are both 5'9" so we are big all over.
A big HUG for everyone. We all need one now and then.
Yes i have. I hugged my wife and she hugged me back.
Last edited by Carlacd; 08-14-2006 at 07:25 PM.
[SIZE="3"]Excellent thought, Kew. I do thank them for everything they have done to make me a better cd.
Gennee[/SIZE]
I'm getting better with age. I may have started late, but better late than never!
"Don't let anyone define who you are".
~Dear Dorothy,
Hate Oz, took the shoes, find your own way home.
Toto~
I hug my wife every day and not because she chubby
Because I love all of her
I just don't have fun -- I make the fun
Life's too short........Enjoy every day
I'm cuddled next to my Chubby GG every night. Would not have it any other way
Sarah R. CD of Chubby GG
Every time I walk down the street, I see every eye on me.
Every time they look at me, I wonder, who do they see?
Perfection in disguise,with regimes and alibis.
The girl in the mirror , isn't the same as the girl in my heart
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Kew,
I really appreciate this thread that you have started here! I am a plus-sized woman and usually wear 3X / 22-24 clothing. I dress well, with a hat and accessories and never go out the door without lipstick. It is so refreshing to read all of the positive comments from the members here. I feel so encouraged to read that CDs appreciate accepting GGs, regardless of their size.
I look forward to the day when I may meet a wonderful CD man, who could love me and appreciate me just the way I am. I am beautiful. Being told that I am beautiful in real life would be the best thing that could ever happen.
There are a few women that I know that are chubby's. I give them hugs every chance that I get. They are so soft and cuddly. I just love that.
Anyway this thread has given me a whole new outlook when standing in line at the checkout. I look around and think, Hmmm That girl needs a hug. Thanks for the thread.
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
<---- size 10 (US size 6), shoe size 8 (UK).
Okay... I realise now (reading the thread is probably a good idea before replying to it) that I'm being harsh. Sorry.
I thought you might be implying that we're all chunky.
Last edited by Kimberly; 08-17-2006 at 01:49 PM.
[size=3]Hugs xx[/size]
[size=2]"You don't have to be fat to be a lady", Sophie 2006[/size]
[SIZE=1]"Hey, those are nice shoes, but they'd look better in my pants! ... I mean..." Robot Chicken, 2006[/SIZE]
[size=1]"He's just said a word we don't understand! And he's won at scrabble with it!" - Eddie Izzard 1998[/size]
[SIZE=1]"Head over heels is fine, unless you're in stilettos." -The Beautiful South, 2005[/SIZE]
[size=1]"Forgive me. Let live, me." - Antony and the Johnsons 2005[/size]
[SIZE="1"]"We walk amoung you..." TransAmerica, 2005[/SIZE]
[size=3]THREAD SUCCESSFULLY HIJACKED[/size]
Fat is where it at!!
I hug my BBW every day.
This girl just wants to have fun !!!