Well girls,
In the interests of encouragement for those more timid soles among us, I thought I would just report how my anouncements have been going.
Told my wife. She said, "So, . . . I want a motorcycle". Well that's not exactly how it went, but she was pretty accepting. And how could I say no to the bike now?
Told my cousin. She said, "So, . . . .How does your wife feel about this?"
Told people at work. Some laughed and said, "Yeah, right." Some were genuinely interested. Most didn't care.
Told my doctor. He said, "Oh gee, I've never had a trans patient before. This will be an adventure for both of us".
Told my therapist. He said, "That will be $75 please".
Told my sister. She didn't believe me at first. Then said, "Isn't it wonderful how as we get older we can do things we would never have done before".
Told the SA in a store. She said, "This skirt will look just lovely on you. And come over here, I've got a darling pair of $100 jeans you just have to try on."
Told my wife's hairdresser. He said, "I can book you in in about a month."
Told the Mary Kay rep. She said, "Come on over. How much did you say you have to spend?"
Told my electrologist. She said, "I can sign you up for a long term contract."
That's pretty much how it's gone. No one freaked out. No one seems to hate me. No one has reacted in any really negative way. Many people just see an oportunity to lighten my wallet. That's OK, I guess. Being a girl sure can get expensive.
Mostly, though, this has been pure, unadulterated fun! I love the attention in the salon, in the stores, with the MK rep, I love the clothes, the makeup, I love feeling my hair as it grows out, I love my longer nails (except when I am working on the truck).
And most of all, I LOVE not sneaking around and hiding this part of me. As I tell my wife, it's like a song in my heart. I feel like singing all the time.
I encourage everyone to think hard about becoming more open. It was really far less traumatic than I could ever have imagined. And the benifits are soooo great. You have the rest of your life to live. How do you want to live it?
Lovies to all,
Stephenie