What a day. I do not dress to try to pass, I mean look at that mug I have. I'm really a cutie huh? Sorry to shock you all, but that's me in the new avatar. Any way, out shopping today in various stores looking like that. As I've been saying, all femme, but not over the top. I'm comfortable this way. I got called Ma'am 3 times , Sir twice , and "Sir, er, Ma'am,Sir" once. I love when they get confused. I don't helped them either, just raise the pich of my voice a bit and whisper thank you. I've even started carrying a clutch purse with me, and I love it! I understand now why GGs carry a handbag. It was a grand day out as Lily. Again, sorry about the shock as to how I look, but the old avatar was, well, old, and I have been asked to show myself, so......... Hope no one's monitor explodes!:heehee LOVE AND XXXX, LILY