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  1. 09-01-2006, 08:04 AM #1
    Girly Sara
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    Outed At Work....AT LAST!!!!

    Hey girls!

    Just thought i'd share the experience i had at work today.

    Was speaking to a female colleague (who's had her suspicions about me! lol) earlier today and i was just mentioning that i was going clubbing this weekend. Anyway, the GG asked where i was going. I replied by saying the name of the club and the fact that it was a Gay, Lesbian & Transgendered venue and was great fun!

    The next thing she said startled me to say the least. She said (without hesitation) "Are you going dressed up?" GULP!!! lol I replied "What do you mean?" (in an innocent way) She replied "Are you going in drag?" Surprised i didn't get embarrassed but i replied " No, i don't do drag" The girl then quickly followed with "..but you're going dressed up, right?" Without hesitation on my part i said "yes i am actually" GULP AGAIN!!! lol Her response was "well i have no problem with that" WOOHOOO!!! Outed at last!!!

    I've soooo wanted to be out at work since joining the company 6 mths ago and many people have had their suspicions for a long time. At the end of the day i just want to be myself as all of us can relate to.

    Anyway, i hope i haven't bored anyone mentioning this and it would be great to hear of other people's experiences.

    Have a great weekend, everyone!

    Hugs from Sara xxxx
  2. 09-01-2006, 08:08 AM #2
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    So pleased to read you had such a good reaction at work.

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  3. 09-01-2006, 08:10 AM #3
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    Not boring at all! Good for you and good for your co-worker!
  4. 09-01-2006, 08:44 AM #4
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    Good for you Sara...and have a great weekend yourself...!!
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    maybe you should ask her if she wants to come w/you to the club.

    Sexy
  6. 09-01-2006, 09:30 AM #6
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    Isn't it great to have a freind at work who knows. Now you have someone to girl talk with, a little female bonding. I have to agree, ask her if she wants to go with you. A fun time will be had by all.
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  7. 09-01-2006, 09:52 AM #7
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    Quote Originally Posted by Girly Sara View Post
    I've soooo wanted to be out at work since joining the company 6 mths ago and many people have had their suspicions for a long time. At the end of the day i just want to be myself as all of us can relate to.
    And... How does it feel?

    Congrats! The next one will be even easier.

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  8. 09-01-2006, 10:03 AM #8
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    Invite her along. Have some fun and great news BTW.
  9. 09-01-2006, 10:52 AM #9
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    That's great news, I'm glad you have found a supportive collegue at work!
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  10. 09-01-2006, 10:56 AM #10
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    Good for you, Sara. I'm envious.


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  11. 09-01-2006, 11:20 AM #11
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    Sara that is great news. I am always pleasantly surprised when a woman is ok with crossdressing. And judging by your picture, you probably look great when you go out.
    Jenn
  12. 09-01-2006, 11:24 AM #12
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    Sara -- Congratulations for hitting the jackpot (finding an approving GG at work). Hope you have a good time out clubbing.
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  13. 09-01-2006, 12:05 PM #13
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    at work

    Sara,

    Just maybe she wants to go with you to the club. Have fun anyway.

    Lotte
  14. 09-01-2006, 12:28 PM #14
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    You go girl you have more guts than me. My boss asked me about 2 weeks ago if I was wearing a bra. I looked at him and asked if it realy mattered what I do on my time is my businness. My underwear is my bussiness but if it bothers you I will not wear it at work. He just said ok and walked away.
    The subject has never been brought up again. All that happened was a dress code notice was put on message board. I just need to make sure I wear my uniform. Not the greatest reaction but I still have my job and my boss is still talks to me, is very nice and treates me the same as before.
  15. 09-01-2006, 02:27 PM #15
    Girly Sara
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    Girls,

    Thanks so much for your lovely replies. It is good news with the GG at work. We're not overly pally with each other but we do get on. I'm quite certain that word has got around and i'm sure they'll be no surprise.

    Sara xxx
  16. 09-01-2006, 04:08 PM #16
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    What gave her suspicions in the first place? It's always cool when you have a GG friend to share the secret with.
  17. 09-01-2006, 04:59 PM #17
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    Sara,

    That's fantastic, you must be over the moon! I know how wonderful it feels when you come out to someone and find they are accepting. Once word gets round (and it will), maybe you'll get some of the girls wanting to go out clubbing with you -- now that would be cool!

    Hugs,
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  18. 09-01-2006, 05:09 PM #18
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    Congrats!!! Nothing better than taking another step!! Hope it relieves some of the mental pressure that comes with the worry of what happens if/when co-workers find out. Just hope she is selective in who she discusses it with before you make your own decision how much further you wissh to reveal yourself to others at work.....have fun at the club!!!!!
  19. 09-01-2006, 05:12 PM #19
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    Wonederful Which club, out of curiosity?
  20. 09-01-2006, 05:17 PM #20
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    So what's the next step? Dressing at work?

    Only if you need to - with plenty of preparation and warning for your colleages.

    (London?? Where were you going? I'll be in that scene soon enough. Argh!! Can't wait!! )

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  21. 09-01-2006, 05:27 PM #21
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    great

    you must feel great once it is out now. i hope your weekend will be great aswell.
  22. 09-01-2006, 06:28 PM #22
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    That is just AWESOME! Maybe she does want to go out with you dressed
    If you can't wear heels, what's the sense of dressing?......
  23. 09-01-2006, 09:18 PM #23
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    Outed at work, welcome to the club. Doesn't it feel get to be the person you truely are. I wanted to so much wear my new jeans and top to work today. So I comprimised wore mascara and pink stay color by Maybelline, eyeliner would have been too much so I didn't do that. But should have done my eyebrows, it just gets easier with every passing day.
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  24. 09-01-2006, 11:28 PM #24
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    You go girl have a great weekend
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    Fantastic!! Glad everthing went well for you. Good luck...BJ
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