hi,
Is this double standards?, fair?, unfair?
The following examples from my life seem to me like double standards.
Before i told my GG SO that i crossdress, she gave me a couple of pairs of womens Calvin Klein jeans size 14 that her best friend had grown out of, but would fit me. When I confessed my desire of crossdressing she took the jeans away, and gave them to a charity shop.
She has sometimes worn one of my T-shirts as a nightdress at night or first thing in the morning.
She has broad feet so she struggles to find womens boots to fit, so she buys herself mens boots. She wears mens boots 80% of the time and womens flat shoes the rest of the time, and never wears heels.
She has a couple of male coats (denim jacket, leather jacket, waterproof, fleece) that she wears a lot of the time.
On the other hand..................
I am never allowed to wear any womens clothes while she is around, not even underwear under my normal clothes.
She doesn't want me to wear any womens clothes while outside.
She doesn't want to ever know about my dressing.(the subject is taboo)
when I came out to her, she said "i am ok with you wearing, but never want to be involved with it, or know about it"
thanks
paul