As a GG I can wear a 3 pc suit, tie, wing-tips & pull my hair back severely, wear no make-up or jewelry & NOT be labelled perverted or freak. I may not be "dressed for success" or considered "pretty", but I can pretty much wear either male or fem clothing style with no serious social consequences. BTW, when I wear my husband's clothes it's usually the grundge or work factor (although I have worn some of his ties & dress shirts before). Convenience & comfort. Why I wear them is irrelevant to the fact that I may wear them & still be predominantly socially acceptable .
Not so male to female. There is real social taboo against that - hence double standard. The CDer who wears ladies' clothes is not so readily accepted.
I think Marla may be on to something. A gradual evolution to similar style. Not male or female - just comfort and style.
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