I was listening to Radio 1 on the way into town, and they had a "gossip" segment, in which people sent in their random gossip... 2 of the 5 pieces I heard were about transgendered people - and it made me think.
The first: "A bussinessman booked into our hotel, and that was fine, but later he came down dressed, fully make-up, wig, accessories, completely as a woman and asked 'Where's the ladies?' Spent the whole night in the cocktail bar."
This sounds like 3 dozen stories I've read on here -- it's like clichéd crossdresser canon, or the beginning of a bad erotic-fiction piece.
The second: "I recently found out my mate was turning from Barry to Carrie."
Again, made me think... I reckon a lot of girls here, go out and think they've "passed" with flying colours - thinking that everyone else has sussed them as a woman.
Reality check, girls! They might not make a fuss, but most people probably read you and just don't care. So why is passing such an issue on here? People can read you, and not say anything right away - but you could be someone's gossiping material for the next few days!
Just think about that when you go out... Me? When I go out (if and when! hah!) the plan is to go out as Transgendered. On one level, being feminine - but not trying to con everyone into believing I'm a woman. You can quote me on that one! (Certain issues arrise - I know you're gonna say... but people should at least show each other respect when out and about.)
And I now have no doubt at all that this thread will be read by about 20 people and then die the death - like every other on here with common sense in it.
love and hugs anyway... xx