My wife has been trying very hard to be more accepting of my dressing. In fact we went shopping together today and I saw a set of women's pajamas (brown with pink lace trim). I usually wear ladies nightgowns or pajamas to bed. I asked her if she would mind me wearing them and she told me it would be OK and I should buy them.
We were primarily shopping for a new comforter for our bed and pillows, etc. We looked at a number of stores and were having trouble finding what she wanted. As we were looking she said "what I am looking for is something very satinny in a nice color, maybe pink, or pale blue. I want something really girly." Later on we found a pale yellow comforter with small pink and violet flowers. We found some lovely purple satin pillows to go beautifully with them. My wife asked me three or four times if I was sure I liked them. I'm sure she was worried they were too femme for our bedroom. I finally told her "honey, I would absolutely ADORE sharing a girly bedroom with you!" We bought them and they look terrific.
I consider myself so lucky to have a wife that wants us to have a "girly" bedroom!
Veronica