Hi there gorgeous folk, I hope you don't mind my interloping but your forum seemed so friendly I thought you may be able to give me some advice.
I'm not a cross dresser but my best friend has recently confessed to being. He's in a long term relationship but has told no-one but me, and whilst I'm not bothered - if it makes him happy then I'm happy, he is horrified by himself. He loves it at the time and likes to send me pics by text and for me to suggest or advise on different outfits but the next day he's mortified and full of apology. He's always been a bit of a ladies man - very into fast cars and loud music and I know he would be mortified if anyone else knew. I've told him time after time that there really is nothing wrong with it, it's part of who is but he's totally unaccepting of himself. He's sure his girlfriend would freak out and that his friends would disown him. He lives in a small town with a close knit community and it's a secret he's kept to himself for ages.
That said - he doesn't seem to have the need all the time he likes to have a few drinks (etc) as part of the whole ritual and still insists he's not a 'real' cross dresser he likes to dress up as a girl when he's a bit wasted
Basically he's very confused and tormenting himself and any advise you can offer that I can then convey would be really appreciated.
Thanks for your time and thanks again for having such an inclusive forum.
Lilly x