View Poll Results: How important is dressing in general for your sex life

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  • An absolute must

    29 14.22%
  • no dress mostly no sex

    15 7.35%
  • it's a roughly 50/50 split

    63 30.88%
  • dressing makes no difference to my sex life

    54 26.47%
  • I would never dress just for sex

    11 5.39%
  • Dressing is not a sexual thing for me

    32 15.69%
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Thread: How important is dressing for your sex life

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    Platinum Member Sheila's Avatar
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    How important is dressing for your sex life

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    What part does dressing play in your sex life?
    Does your dressing drive your sex life?
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    Dressing

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    I voted 50/50, however, in the past it did play a big part, but no so frequently now though, but i do now find that if i've been able to dress for a significant number of days, then i do start to feel a lot sexier (for the want of a better word). It doesn't always lead to sex, which isn't always a bad thing i find, as i feel as if it heightens my feeling of femeninity and sexuality. Lol Sharon xx

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    I dress for me and whats sex it's been 2 years when i last had any sex I must get my act together.

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    So what is sex?
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    Annie it comes between 5 and 7.

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    Sex?

    What sex life?

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    I voted so I should say why. dressing has never been a sexual thing for me, and sex, well that is something I have not been involved with since my divorce years ago
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    Quote Originally Posted by Karren Hutton View Post
    What sex life?

    Love Karren
    Oh sorry for this, but i feel better now i am not on my own

    Lov Jeanette

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    Mywife is accepts and is somewhat supportive my dressing turns her off to sex to have sex I must present as my male self witch works for my
    Angie

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    Junior Member Tina T's Avatar
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    I voted 50/50, but I don’t think it quite applies to me.

    I don’t need to have sex if I dress, and conversely I don’t need to dress to have sex….but it does spice it up if I do.

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    Yeah, had to look the word up in the dictionary. Wife was sick for a year and half, and I'm widowed for close to a year, but what it said in the book rang a bell. Love and xxxx, Lily
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    No connection between sex and dressing at all. That arrangement works well for me and my wife.
    Fulltime girl on the inside.
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    In the past was a big part, usually in "self exploration", but in actualy relationships, not much directly. However indirectly it sometimes creates a subtle arousal that I guess carryies over into the bedroom.
    "My Mother wanted me to find a nice girl..so I became one."

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    I like to dress for sex but it does not happen as much as I would like, but when it does that makes it even more special..

    Gabby

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    Quote Originally Posted by jess(SO)
    Does your dressing drive your sex life?
    I'd assume it is not that much different from other people.
    Sometimes one expresses an erotic mood with dressing.
    Sometimes dressing can produce an erotic mood.
    In general it's neiter the one nor the other that drives the dressing or the sex life. Just a different level of emotions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeanette TS View Post
    Oh sorry for this, but i feel better now i am not on my own

    Lov Jeanette
    Well glad someone feels better. Hehehe. Anyone know of a good convent near Pittsburgh? I do look good in black and white!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karren Hutton View Post
    Well glad someone feels better. Hehehe. Anyone know of a good convent near Pittsburgh? I do look good in black and white!!

    Love Karren
    You know i thought that the first time i saw you looking good in black and white.

    Lov Jeanette

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    I'm more of a 50/50 split now. It used to be 90% sex. I still wear night gowns, but full dressing is a different pleasure.

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    i vote this it's a roughly 50/50 split

    because i enjoy the sex with my wife and dressed and undressed

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    In my house it can only be one way...no dressing and sex...or dressing and no sex....since sex only lasts a few minutes and my wife's not into it anymore...I much prefer to dress!!!!

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    I think for a hetro female sex with a man dressed as a women would be a big
    turn off .I know my gf would run for the hills ,I guess there must be bi females that might like it .

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    [SIZE="3"]There was a time when dressing was a sexual thing, now dressing satisfy the soul.[/SIZE]
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    For me, dressing no longer has anything to do with sex, as someone said earlier - it's an identity issue.


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    Dressing and sex have little, if any, connection in my life. When I first was dressing, I think that there was some arousal involved, but that is long passed.
    warmly, Linnea

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