To the cds
What part does dressing play in your sex life?
Does your dressing drive your sex life?
An absolute must
no dress mostly no sex
it's a roughly 50/50 split
dressing makes no difference to my sex life
I would never dress just for sex
Dressing is not a sexual thing for me
To the cds
What part does dressing play in your sex life?
Does your dressing drive your sex life?
I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me
My dressing is about identity only. Ericka
I voted 50/50, however, in the past it did play a big part, but no so frequently now though, but i do now find that if i've been able to dress for a significant number of days, then i do start to feel a lot sexier (for the want of a better word). It doesn't always lead to sex, which isn't always a bad thing i find, as i feel as if it heightens my feeling of femeninity and sexuality. Lol Sharon xx
I dress for me and whats sex it's been 2 years when i last had any sex I must get my act together.
Lov Jeanette
So what is sex?
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What sex life?
Love Karren
I voted so I should say why. dressing has never been a sexual thing for me, and sex, well that is something I have not been involved with since my divorce years ago
Super Mod
Oh God, Thy sea is so great and my boat is so small
The Breton Fisherman's Prayer was engraved on a brass plaque and presented to President John F. Kennedy by US Navy Admiral Hyman Rickover.
Daintre, gone but not forgotten, R.I.P. Angel xx
Tamara
Mywife is accepts and is somewhat supportive my dressing turns her off to sex to have sex I must present as my male self witch works for my
Angie
I voted 50/50, but I don’t think it quite applies to me.
I don’t need to have sex if I dress, and conversely I don’t need to dress to have sex….but it does spice it up if I do.
Yeah, had to look the word up in the dictionary. Wife was sick for a year and half, and I'm widowed for close to a year, but what it said in the book rang a bell. Love and xxxx, Lily
Comfortable in my own skin.
"Never underestimate the power of human stupidity, and never cease to be amazed by it!" Lazarus Long
No connection between sex and dressing at all. That arrangement works well for me and my wife.
Fulltime girl on the inside.
Lipstick=confidence
[SIZE=4]Holly[/SIZE]
In the past was a big part, usually in "self exploration", but in actualy relationships, not much directly. However indirectly it sometimes creates a subtle arousal that I guess carryies over into the bedroom.
"My Mother wanted me to find a nice girl..so I became one."
I like to dress for sex but it does not happen as much as I would like, but when it does that makes it even more special..
Gabby
I'd assume it is not that much different from other people.Originally Posted by jess(SO)
Sometimes one expresses an erotic mood with dressing.
Sometimes dressing can produce an erotic mood.
In general it's neiter the one nor the other that drives the dressing or the sex life. Just a different level of emotions.
I'm more of a 50/50 split now. It used to be 90% sex. I still wear night gowns, but full dressing is a different pleasure.
Colleen
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Feeling pretty on the inside.
i vote this it's a roughly 50/50 split
because i enjoy the sex with my wife and dressed and undressed
In my house it can only be one way...no dressing and sex...or dressing and no sex....since sex only lasts a few minutes and my wife's not into it anymore...I much prefer to dress!!!!
I think for a hetro female sex with a man dressed as a women would be a big
turn off .I know my gf would run for the hills ,I guess there must be bi females that might like it .
[SIZE="3"]There was a time when dressing was a sexual thing, now dressing satisfy the soul.[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Life Begins When You Stop Worrying What Other People Think[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Walk TALL SMILE and be CONFIDENT all will be OK[/SIZE]
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For me, dressing no longer has anything to do with sex, as someone said earlier - it's an identity issue.
Jenna
[SIZE="2"]There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved. - George Sand[/SIZE]
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Dressing and sex have little, if any, connection in my life. When I first was dressing, I think that there was some arousal involved, but that is long passed.
warmly, Linnea