Hello all. I have read many entries on here about gurls being found out. There seems to be alot of fear involved. I shared in that FEAR! Yesterday my wife found "Corrinne's" suitcase in the basement. She came walking up from the basement with a pair of my platform shoes in her hands...thinking they were left behind from the previous owner of our house. That was until she saw the look on my face..which told her different.
I gave her a few minutes of "silent time" and then went to her and asked for a hug and told her that I was sorry for embarrassing her and myself. She said there is nothing to be sorry about. Come to find out her main concern was that the clothes belonged to another woman...Hmmmm size 14 shoe, I think not..LOL! I thought for sure the walls were going to come dumbling down around me. Oh, the thoughts that ran through my head. Her freak'n out. Divorce. Finding a place to live. Her telling everyone I know that I'm a crossdresser. YIKES!!! FEAR!
Last evening we talked when we went to bed and she said that she would fully support my dressing, so long it was with her and only with her. But if I felt like I wanted to keep it to myself, she was fine with that too. Just so long as the clothes were mine and not some other woman's. So 18 years of marriage and keeping this little secret to myself...was wasted. All because of fear. I almost purged my entire inventory of things too...what a waste that would have been..LOL!
So, I guess the moral of the story. Be yourself and tell the person you love the truth about yourself. Don't let fear rule your life.
I'm sure there are other gurls and GG's who have experienced the same thing.
Corrinne