do you go out if you see the neighbors out? what if you make it out and on the way home your neighbors are outside
do you go out if you see the neighbors out? what if you make it out and on the way home your neighbors are outside
I wave and say 'Hi!' with a smile
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I agree with Lisa. Just smile and wave.
Huggs, Renee
Once they have seen you, all you can do is wave and smile! Then you at least out to them! I am sure my neighbors have seen me leaving the neighborhood. Yet to date no one has said a word to me.
Eileen
But of course, otherwise I would never go out, however if you mean do I go out dressed if the neighbours are out...
... But of course
Listen carefully to what is said, quite often you can hear what is not being said
The joy of correcting a mistake can bring pain to another
love thy neighbors, no such luck. For this girl to walk out side fully dressed if my next door neighbor was out. They would have a fild day on me.
I do walk from front door to my car dressed very quickly jump in and go. And if they are out side when coming home I drive past and wait somewhere for a hour then try again.
Love as always Jasminexxxxxxxx
going out if the neighbours are about ....mmm ... well the first time was a nightmare but I decided if they see me they see me .... and i know that they have but either they are not to sure it was me or that they are to embarrassed to say anything i dont know but no-one has said a word to me or my partner so .... what the hell i do it all the time now no matter who is out
hugz Mallisa
My whole neighbourhood knows, though to date not a bad word has been uttered, which frankly though it has nothing to do with them what I do, I have been very surprised, as at the start I sorta expected something to be said, but in the end nothing has ever been said. Though my first trip out in the day was years ago now lol, the thought of going outside my front door no longer is no great deal, even if neighbours are out.. I just do my own thing, they see and acknowledge as do I, and i carry on...
I have been shopping to town since (daytimes) visiting restaurants and cafes, seaside lol, I have done loads of things dressed, as far as i am concerned it's no big deal anymore.... though just a sheer pleasure to be myself...
Depends on your cicumstances. I personaly prefer to keep out of sight while out dressed.
Anyone ever get this whole 'prisoner in my own home vibe' like it is over here?
Originally Posted by Eileen
Well if they did say a word to you Eileen, I'm sure it'd simply be: Hello Ma'am!
Your avatar picture is probably "the" most passable picture I've seen on this forum to date!
I read your post closely thinking: Ok, is that a GG or a CD?
Kudos!
HI for maney years I hid my dressing from all looked around all corners so to speek. always hid from neighbors and then relized its my life not thiers of anybody eles. so I come and go as I please now I dont go out of my way for all to see but I dont hide it eather. I guess you reach a point when you relize that hideing in the house is not what life is. so go out enjoy life and who cares what the neighbors say or think. love jennig
Been going out during the day since coming to the forum. Most niegbors don't talk to me any ways sothose that see me don't know who it is that lives here. I go to the mail box dress all the time. So let them think what they want.
GLENDA
I FEEL LIKE A WOMAN
The neighbors directly opposite are the only ones that can see me when it's time to get to the car. Although we don't talk to these neighbors other than nodding and saying hello when we take the garbage out, I do still get concerned when we go out and it's daylight. They have this big swinging chair that is in their front yard and they sometimes sit out in it in the summer. There have been times when I just "went for it" and just walked to the car like I owned the place, and to date, nothing bad has ever happened.
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As I mentioned in a previous post, I sort of made a "pre-emptive strike" and told my next door neighbor. I figured she would see me eventually anyway and it would be best to get the information out on my terms.
I have had no feedback so far, but we were not that close in any case.
Steph
If my neighbors are out, rarely, I'd take off my wig and just walk from the garage to the house. They are old and in their 80's and more. So I don't worry, The folks on the other side, I don't worry about.
BJ
Last edited by Holly; 10-08-2006 at 12:53 AM.
Since I have moved into a new neighborhood, it is easy to slip in and out dressed.I have a privacy fence on the street side which blocks anyone's view of my back door.
(house door that is). And with the car just outside, my only concern is the gates. But since they don't know me, I can come and go quite easily. Now one of my neighbor's gg relatives saw me one morning, and asked me if I lived here,
I said , "no". Some friends of mine had just moved in and I was visiting them.
Nothing else has been said since. I love it.
If the clothes make the man then the makeup makes the woman.
[SIZE="3"]I choose to stay indoors when dressed as I wouldn't pass. Mind you the flat I live in is ground floor and front facing. I'm sure people can see in. I don't care its my home and I'll wear what I want.
Anna Marie x[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]I need to be on the outside, who I am on the inside[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know[/SIZE]
lol....well the first time that I had the nerve to go out with my wig on I was stopped at the end of the driveway to pull onto the road and an old friend who has absolutely no idea that I dress drove by. Not sure if he figured out it was me as haven't talked to him since. Was a very strange feeling
Michelle
My husband and I specifically bought our house because of the privacy factor. There are large trees and no windows in the front of our home. We also have a garage door which connects to the front porch area. Getting in and out is not an issue if the neighbors are out, because the way our walkway in tucked away and long they would have to have binoculars to see anything. On the evenings when we have friends over who are not very passable we ask that they park in the garage and come on that privacy garage door. But all that said I am sure our neighbors on both sides have seen Amanda ...and as of this time no one has actually confronted us....I also believe the less you talk and know your neighbors the better.
If you really are unhappy with yoru privacy....relocate....that is what we did ...well and we needed a new home....
Vanya, are you sure you got then right name for your post? Your words are so very kind! If they were meant for me, thank you very much! But I can not take the credit! I have to give it all to Clare McAfee, aka The Wiggoddess. She did a great job considering what she had to work with! Check out her web site - TG North.com.
Eileen
Yep, I got the name right.Your look is totally age appropriate, something I give high marks for. Admittedly, my eyes are 51 years old, but I see nothing masculine in that avatar picture. Don't be so quick to pass off the credit. We all began somewhere when it comes to makeup, GG or CD.
Here's yourto ya!
I go outside in my yard and well those that live around me will see very litle as they tend not to watch what goes on except for what is happning in their own yars so it is fairly safe. The people that have the best view, their driveway is directely opposite mine at that is the only view into my yard.
They do not even glance my way.
I am moving to another place at the end of the year but there my yard is in full view of my neighbors, luckly only on two sides, my back and one side so going out will be easy. Only problem is the lane leading up to the complex...only one way in and out. I have the first place.
Some years ago I had a good giggle at a neighbor's expense as he walked down the road in drag, he had on his sisters dress, wig and even makeup. I was sitting watching Tv and he walked down the road. to a friends place. Later two girls walked back up to his place and after a while his car pulled out with him driving with his friend. It was only later on a few days later that I found out that the girl was him,that is how I knew.
This goes to show that most people will not even relize that it is you comming and going, they all too wraped up in their own doings..
I go out around the yard about three times a week. Take out the trash, go and put mail in the mailbox. I have had a neigbor a couple of house up from ours wave at me a couple of times. At that distance, I pass 100%, and I wave back. We live near a middle school, so I have had school kids walk by. They seem to Preoccupied to notice me. LOL
I live in a small apartment block with one entrance. I try to avoid encountering my neighbours on the way out, and have rarely encountered them when I return. However, late one afternoon a few years ago, I thought the coast was clear, but when I got downstairs there were at least half a dozen young people facing towards me, just hanging around chatting.
Robin
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