truth/reality
i have and am having a hard time with the truth problem, i can under stand how a S O can not trust a guy again, after the fact, "she finds out he is a cd after they have dated /married", but i have asked a lot of gg's if they would date a cd if they knew first about the cding and they say no ,they tell me to date and then tell her , there is no time table, but honesty is not the best police ,
if the ggs had known about there hubbys, hobby they would never have been there hubby's,
they had the hobby before the had the wife, but they wanted the wife, and cant stop the hobby,
the fem side of all cd's is there most of the time, it's just the outlet of dressing that makes it more prominent.
im just having a hard time understanding the dont tell, tell it's a lie ,standard
can some one give me some insight ?