As a GG I've read a lot on here about the crossdressers 'secret', but how do the GG's feel about having to keep a 'secret' that's actually not theirs.
I have lived an open and honest life but now, due to my OH's dressing, I am forced to keep a secret from my friends and family, something my own actions have never led me to have to do.
I feel in some ways I'm forced to be disloyal to my family to be loyal to my OH.
How do you deal with this conflict and, have you guys ever thought about it this way? I'm sure you have.
The way I see it is this is a secret you choose to keep whilst your SO is forced to keep it through circumstances beyond her control.
Assuming you're not out that is.