I know that at the end it is down to each individual couple to make the adjustments in your relationship so this is, a general advice seeking question from a relative newbie SO (3 months now and still going).
I know how to react to my "man" ----- a bit of it being from the old how we are brough up bit the rest from life learning ---------- however when Claire first made her apperance fully dressed I/we were so new at this I didn't know how I was meant to react,-- did I sit and cuddle with her, did I just do the normal partner things we did but just with him in a skirt --------- I may not be really expressing myself very well here, but I am trying not to upset any of you by phrasing things wrong. If he is just wearing undies under male pants I just carry on as usual ( and boy can I carry on )
Even now I am not sure what the "right" way to react is (and Claire has been physically present on a few occasions recently) so any insight might help, as I don't know just how different you present emotionally as well as physically when you dress. I just want to get this right for him/her/us.
I guess I am maybe asking do you want us to treat you differently physically and emotionally, and if so how can we do that ??
Thanks for your help in advance
Jess(so)