This may be an unthinkable circumstance for those of us that are closeted, but by being secretive and in the closet it is an omnipresent possibility. That circumstance is having the secret revealed violently and simultaneously across our entire family, social, and professional spectrums. Depending on the mix within those various sectors, the fall-out could be shunning by the family including being exiled from the family home and the children, total loss of friends, and loss of employment, all happening at about the same time.
I recall reading threads here where the CDer revealed the secret to a SO on a confidential basis, only to have the SO react by spreading the word to others. Separation and/or divorce has resulted in some of those cases, and lord knows what other ramifications flowed from spreading the word.
Even in cases where the CDer has revealed the secret to the SO, and the SO has maintained the confidence, how would the SO react if the secret was wrenched from them by an outside circumstance and widely publicized as above?
In view of this, I wonder if anyone has given thought to and/or even done some preliminary planning for an unthinkable Plan B, which could be as drastic as starting over from scratch without a single support system or means of making a living.